How To Host A Big Holiday Dinner Without A Dining Room
When the holidays approach, that usually means a lot of family gatherings and big dinners. If you’re the one in charge of hosting this year, your first thought might be the menu. But if you don’t have a dining room, you might be stressing about where you’re going to put everyone when it’s time to eat.
A few long tables set up in the living room create a makeshift dining room for your holiday meal. If the weather’s nice, take dinner outside, or keep it casual and let guests sit anywhere. Also, just because you’re hosting, doesn’t mean you have to use your house. Consider renting a small event space for your holiday gathering.
Don’t sweat it if you don’t have a dining room and need to host a big holiday dinner. You can get creative and still serve a fantastic meal everyone will enjoy. Here are a few options to consider, no dining room required.
Six Ways To Host Holiday Meals Without A Dining Room
It’s not uncommon for a home to not have a dining room. If you’re like many other homeowners, you turned your dining room into an office, home gym, or a playroom. But now you’re hosting the big family holiday dinner, and you’re regretting your decision. Don’t. If you’re set on inviting family and friends over for a holiday dinner but you don’t have a dining room, here are a few suggestions to make the day run smoothly and give everyone enough elbow room to enjoy their meal.
1. Set Up A Temporary Dining Room In Your Living Room
Perhaps one of the most obvious solutions would be to have a make-shift dining room for the big day. A few folding tables lined up together make a great dining table once you cover them with a pretty cloth and runner. Pull chairs in from the kitchen, add some folding chairs, and make sure you have a seat for everyone.
If you’re going to have children in the mix, you can always make the kitchen table the famous kids’ table. This gives everyone their own space, and allows you to free up more room for adult guests in your temporary space. Move some furniture around before your guests arrive to keep things as roomy as possible.
Push the sofa against the wall, and move smaller pieces into another room. You don’t have to waste time trying to make the room look perfect. The goal is to create a space where people can move around and sit comfortably for their meal.
When dinner is over, you can always clear the tables and fold them away if you want to shift back into living room mode for conversation and mingling. Dessert can always be a grab-and-eat-where-you-are affair. It’s easy to kick back on the sofa with a slice of pie as you chat it up with friends.
2. Utilize Backyard Space
Depending on the weather and the size of your backyard, you could decide to serve your holiday dinner al fresco. In pleasant climates, this can be an enjoyable way to host a big meal while minimizing the mess in your home (consider that a bonus).
A covered patio makes this option especially tempting since you won’t have to stress about a light rain ruining your plans. Set up tables and chairs, and get clips to hold down the tablecloth's edges. Let guests serve themselves inside from the kitchen, then bring their dishes outside to enjoy the meal.
If you leave certain items on the table, including holiday side dishes and condiments, cover them. It’s also a good idea to have some type of bug defense nearby, whether it’s citronella candles, spray, or anti-bug lights. The one downside of an outdoor holiday meal is an unexpected weather emergency. You might want to have a backup plan in case wind, heavy rain, or lightning spoil your plans. You could always shift gears into step one and set up in your living room.
3. Consider Hosting Somewhere Else
Just because you’re hosting the meal doesn’t mean it has to be at your house. You could book a private room in a small event space. If you plan to go this route, it’s critical to make the reservation way in advance. You also want to make sure the venue lets you bring in your own food and doesn’t require you to use their caterer. (Unless, of course, you want a catered holiday dinner and have the budget for it.)
Discuss with the venue staff how you want tables and chairs set up. Bring any decorations or extra table covers you want to use to create more of a holiday-at-home vibe. Include an extra table or two to place the various dishes and desserts so people can serve themselves buffet-style.
With this option, you’ll need to make sure your guests know the venue’s location and are clear on the time. The company likely has a set limit for the booking, usually three to four hours (unless you’re paying for an extended time slot). If your family and friends like to linger after the meal, consider hosting an after-party at your home.
You can have a big dinner at the venue and afterward, everyone can gather at your house for casual conversation, games, or however your clan typically ends its big holiday dinner.
4. Keep It Casual
Another way to host a big holiday dinner without a dining room is to lose the formality of the occasion. Inform guests that you're going with a casual, laid-back theme this year. Don’t bother with a traditional long table and instead, pull the coffee table close to the couch, position a couple of armchairs around a side table, and set the kitchen table.
Make a place setting on the kitchen island and use stools; pull a couple of ottomans or poufs next to the other side of the coffee table. People can make their plates in the kitchen, then find a place to settle in to enjoy their meal. If you have a very large group, set up a couple of card tables and a few folding chairs here and there.
This style of dinner can actually make the gathering feel more relaxed. People can move around, talk to different guests, and find a comfortable spot. You may even find that your guests prefer this to sitting at one long table for several hours.
5. Use The Garage
If you have a garage, depending on how it looks and functions, you could turn it into a dining room for the event. A clean, finished garage can give you a surprising amount of space for a holiday meal. Consider moving cars, tools, and other items out of the way and setting up tables and chairs. This idea works especially well if your garage has good lighting, finished floors, or even heating and air conditioning.
You can make the space feel more inviting with tablecloths, holiday decorations, and string lights. Of course, you'll want to make sure the garage is clean and comfortable before inviting guests in. You also don't want anyone eating near chemicals, gasoline, tools, or other potentially unsafe items.
6. Head To The Basement
A bit unconventional perhaps, but a finished basement offers a viable solution if you need a place to host the holidays without a dining room. This tip is similar to setting up in the living room or garage. Typically, your basement offers more space, so it might make more sense to accommodate large tables and a lot of people. If your basement also has a TV or comfy seating, it can also become a hangout spot after the meal.
You can either bring the food downstairs to serve from there, or have everyone gather their plates in the kitchen first, then come down. However, there is one big caveat with using your basement -- the stairs. You need to make sure all your guests can navigate the stairs easily. If anyone has mobility issues or other conditions that prevent them from using stairs, this might not be the best option for you.
You Don’t Need a Dining Room for the Holidays
Not having a dining room doesn’t mean you have to skip hosting your family’s big holiday dinner. With a little creativity, you can turn a living room, basement, or even the backyard into a welcoming place to share a meal. After all, it’s the people around the table that make the holidays special, not the room itself.
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Stacy Randall is a wife, mother, and freelance writer from NOLA that has always had a love for DIY projects, home organization, and making spaces beautiful. Together with her husband, she has been spending the last several years lovingly renovating her grandparent's former home, making it their own and learning a lot about life along the way.
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